Saturday, May 26, 2012

Vietnam Vet Tribute With Pictures & Flowers

Posted: 27 May 2012 08:00 AM PDT
"How do we, amidst the challenges of our lives, gain the vision necessary to do those things that will bring us closer to the Savior? Speaking of vision, the book of Proverbs teaches this truth: 'Where there is no vision, the people perish' (Proverbs 29:18). If we are to prosper rather than perish, we must gain a vision of ourselves as the Savior sees us."
—Elder O. Vincent Haleck, "Having the Vision to Do", General Conference, Apr. 2012
Topics: FaithAdversity

My husband is a Vietnam vet (three tours).  I know Veteran's Day is probably more appropriate to mention him, since he is still alive, but I cannot resist including him because of who he was before he went to war was lost and replaced by a different person.  Part of him did die (the innocence and peaceful part in his mind and heart).  I've seen the evidence of the price he has paid for 24 years of military service.  This weekend, especially, I am thinking of all of our war heroes (alive or dead) who have given a piece of their life for us and our freedom.  They could have just kept their lives for themselves but they didn't.  Their families also paid a price in their sacrifice.  Thank you to all the brave men and women of the military (and their family members) for all you've done for the world.

Other family members have served in the military on countless tours of duty during World War II, the Korean War, and the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan.  I am grateful for all they have given for us.  I hope you know your sacrifice is worth it to millions of people who not only live now, but it benefits those in the future.

Happy Memorial Day!

Later days
Earlier days

Tuesday, May 22, 2012

Celebrate Dandelions and Common Things


Posted: 20 May 2012 08:00 AM PDT
"Our doctrine is clear; we are to be positive and of good cheer. We emphasize our faith, not our fears. We rejoice in the Lord’s assurance that He will stand by us and give us guidance and direction. The Holy Ghost testifies to our hearts that we have a loving Father in Heaven, whose merciful plan for our redemption will be fulfilled in every aspect because of the atoning sacrifice of Jesus Christ."
—Elder Quentin L. Cook, "In Tune with the Music of Faith", General Conference, Apr. 2012
Topics: Faith

This is our lawn (well, it tries to pass itself off as one).  Way out in the fields to the back of this photo you will see white.  These are dandelions.  The fields are a mass of them, so it is a losing battle to try to dig these lovely little flowers out of the lawn
I proclaim today Celebrate Dandelion Day!  If you can’t beat ‘um, join ‘um.
Sometimes the more common, insignificant things in the world are ignored and unappreciated.  Take dandelions, for instance, most people hate them.  They claim their lawns are ruined by them and they rage a constant war to eradicate them.  Forget that.  It’s a battle that shall not be won.

Actually, I’m quite impressed with these dandy little flowers called Dandelions.  I'll need to research from wenst the name originated.  They brighten up the green in the lawn with their sunny yellow, until they turn into fairy balls children love to blow into the wind.  They never let their tops being cut off dampen their spirits.   In fact, if you cut them off when they have poofy white heads, they’ll do you the honor of multiplying more quickly.  Not only that, the greens are good in salads and soups.  Ask anyone who survived the great depression.

Think about some people who seem like dandelions.  They may seem quite common and even annoying, but if you get to know them you may discover wisdom and beauty you previously didn’t appreciate.  No matter what the world has dealt them by way of short changes or challenges, they seem to bob along surviving and even flourishing.  They often have special ways of brightening up their little corners of the world.  There’s a thing or two to be learned from the common folks.
Grow babies, grow
I think it’s the common that really rule the world.  The exceptional makes a splash, but the common is the current that ebbs and flows throughout, around, under, over, and in between everything everywhere.  Praise the common!  Celebrate normalcy!  Dance through a field of dandelions and let them tickle your toes.  Dandelions arise and be joyful of ordinary lives!
It looks like they need no encouragement to grow where they are not wanted.  Yes, all the white in the fields in the back of our house are also dandelions.  We are the dandelion capitol of the world--I think.  Only one question, why is it they don't grow in our back yard with the other weeds?  They seem to prefer cultivated fields and lawns where people are trying NOT to grow them.  I'm putting up a sign so they know they are totally invited to grow in the back yard to their little warped hearts' content.

Monday, May 14, 2012

Life is Short-Savor it and Build for Eternity


Posted: 14 May 2012 08:00 AM PDT
"Every thoughtful person has asked himself the question best phrased by Job of old: 'If a man die, shall he live again?' Try as we may to put the question out of our thoughts, it always returns. Death comes to all mankind. It comes to the aged as they walk on faltering feet. Its summons is heard by those who have scarcely reached midway in life’s journey, and often it hushes the laughter of little children. But what of an existence beyond death? Is death the end of all? ... My brothers and sisters, we know that death is not the end. This truth has been taught by living prophets throughout the ages. It is also found in our holy scriptures."
—President Thomas S. Monson, "The Race of Life", General Conference, Apr. 2012
Topics: Resurrection

While I am alive, I shall live each day seeking at least one priceless gift among whatever chaos there might be.  I shall savor all that is given to me, build relationships to last beyond death, and relish special moments, wrapping up the memories of them as cherished treasures that can be tasted with delight endlessly.



Happiness is when someone takes the time to show he or she love you.  I had a great Mother's Day.  Happiness is also when we take the time to show someone we love him or her.  Love and unselfishness is a circle and cycle for those who do it.  It eventually comes back to you.
I love balloons and this one is the most unique I've ever seen.
Tulips still in bloom--lovely bouquet!
Beauty within and without
Got this as a gift last night.  Done reading it (with pleasure) today.  Love Richard Paul Evans as an author.  He has deep insights incorporated into small books.  A quote from the book I believe is true:  "To forgive is to unlock the cage of another's folly to set ourselves free."
Cards representing caring and love.  One from a visiting teacher, one from a darling husband, one from am equally darling son-in-law, and two from precious daughters.  Three phone calls from other precious adult children (one a step) and a call Saturday night from a dear friend, plus many good wishes through Face Book and email during the day, topped off the love and thoughtfulness extended to me for Mother's Day.  Lucky me!  Oh, the tower on the right is full of chocolate goodies!!





Sunday, May 13, 2012

Family IS Everything--I Love you More Than ...

This is the saying on a plaque that hung in our home as the children were growing up:

Guide for a Loving Home

May we treat one another with respect, honesty and care, for that is the only way we will ever grow together.

May we share the little discoveries and changes each day brings, remembering that each one of us has something to say, and listening is important too.

May we try always to be sensitive to one another's joys, sorrows, needs and changing moods, and realize that being a loving family means sometimes not understanding everyone all the time, but being there to love and help them just the same.

Today is Mother's Day and a time when older mothers, like myself, reflect on their children's growing up years and the sweet and tender moments of joy they brought at each milestone in their lives.  No mother ever forgets the birth day of each child as he or she was laid into her arms.  No mother forgets the day their child leaves home to make a way in the world.  The theme for mothers of infants is, "I can't wait until I can get a full night's rest."  That is when a mother can't wait for the next phase of her child's growth.  The theme for older mothers is, "Time went too fast!"  That is when a mother wants to s-l-o-w down the clock and enjoy the company of her children and grandchildren whenever  they are able to stop running for a while.  Sometimes it is the other way around--when I stop running for a while.

I feel so fortunate to have children who do slow down for me and get off their speeding life cycles to call or visit.  My children, no matter what age, have been the greatest blessing in life.  They have brought me the greatest joy and the most sorrow.  All I desire for them is happiness and whatever they feel is success.  It hasn't always gone the way they like, and I then suffer with them.  When it does go well, we celebrate together.  Our roller coaster ride has been life with all the ups and downs and sharp, unexpected turns, but we hang together pretty much in tact (well, almost all of us).

Today, love flows more abundantly towards mothers around the world, where this day is celebrated, because it is dictated that mothers get honored in some way.  Thank goodness, it doesn't take my kids a special day to make me feel loved and appreciated!

Here is what I got in the mail yesterday from my youngest daughter (it thrilled me to the core):
This is the cover of the book my littlest angel (L.A.) made for me.  I didn't even know this picture had been taken by her husband in the Florida Keys when we were out there for their wedding.
A few years back, we, out of the blue, started the "I love you more than" in our daily e-mails.
She went back through all the old e-mails she saved over the past three years, and chose ones that go with the pictures of good times that would touch her Mommy roo's heart (her nickname for me, which I have no idea why it popped into her head to call me that.  I guess she just likes the sound of it).  The dates and names show who said the quote.  The picture on the left is with my youngest daughter and son in the Keys.  The picture on the right is when my husband brought all three daughters to surprise me on my birthday when we were on our mission in Georgia.  That WAS the biggest and most delightful surprise of my life!  They even brought me a Baker's cake from Salt Lake City!  If you have never seen or tasted one, you have no idea what you are missing.






Purple is my youngest's favorite color, so I would sometimes send her purple flowers in an e-mail.
I helped my daughter move from Colorado to Oregon last year and swore I'd never clean another window with leftover tape from the decorations that were hung the year before.  She is a huge fan of Halloween--and tape.




 YUP!  You can't beat the gift of memories of family and happy times!!  This makes it so much easier to hold onto them.

Sunday, May 6, 2012

Good Thoughts to Live By #20


Posted: 26 Apr 2012 11:00 PM PDT
"I testify that the sacrament gives us an opportunity to come to ourselves and experience ‘a mighty change’ of heart—to remember who we are and what we most desire. As we renew the covenant to keep the commandments, we obtain the companionship of the Holy Ghost to lead us back into our Heavenly Father’s presence. No wonder we are commanded to ‘meet together oft to partake of [the] bread and [water]’ and to partake of the sacrament to our souls."
—Elder Robert D. Hales, "Coming to Ourselves: The Sacrament, the Temple, and Sacrifice in Service", General Conference, Apr. 2012
Topics: Sacrament, Repentance


Jesus Christ gave us all of his life and love.  He continues to do so.  We can show our thankfulness and love to him by loving and serving others.
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More Unknown Author's Quotes I Love:  (maybe I'll find them one of these days and give rightful credit)


The art of being wise is the art of knowing what to overlook.
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Memories are postcards from the heat.  They tell of the many roads we have traveled and the people we have loved along the way.
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Love is like a mirror.  When you love another, you become his mirror and he becomes yours . . . and reflecting each other’s love, you see infinity.  Love is always open arms.  If you close your arms about love, you will find that you are left holding only yourself.
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The most wasted of all days is that on which one has not laughed.
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Everyone is uniquely packaged to do something special.  Not one person is of greater worth than the other, but we all have something to give.  Do not ask to be the best, but do you best at whatever is tried.
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After the worst is over
With nothing left to fear
The sun continues rising
With undiminished cheer
Birds continue singing
Skies continue fair
As hearts continue bearing
The thing they could not
bear
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Fragrance lingers on the hands of those who hand out roses.
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If, while we are young, just one person love us uncritically, then we will have love to give for the rest of our lives.
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Perspective on priorities:
If I knew I was going to die, would I live life differently?
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Use the talents you possess, for the woods would be silent if only the birds with the best voices sang.
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It’s the start that stops most people.
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When asked to plant a garden, the first thing many people dig up is an excuse.
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A cloudy day is no match for a sunny disposition.
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Never let the seeds keep you from enjoying the watermelon.
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Given with love, a fistful of dandelions means as much as a dozen roses.
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There was a time I seemed to sail upon a vast blue sea, scanning the horizon for some distant, golden shore, imagining that happiness lay ahead of me in some wonderous perfect place.
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Things we can learn from a turtle: We all need a home we can retreat to that is a safe place for us.
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Taking a nap doesn’t mean that I am not getting things done.  I am resting.
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Education is a down payment on opportunity.
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The secret to life is knowing that beauty and great wisdom can be found in the simplest of moments.
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When someone cares enough to love us in our perfectly imperfect form, they bless us with a rare kind of joy.
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Remembering is a journey the heart takes back into a time that was.  Our thoughts are the only tickets needed to ride.
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The laughter of a child is the most beautiful music on earth.
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Knowledge is Power.  Power is victory.
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Trust in the promise of time and you’ll see that the stars hold wonderful surprises for us all.
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By nurturing friends and family, we are reminded of the precious miracle of love.
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Be like the moon–reflect the Son.
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Go thy way and harm thee none.
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The cure for all the ills and wrongs, the cares, the sorrows, and the crimes of humanity, all lie in that one word LOVE.
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Excellence can be obtained if you: Care more than others think is wise.  Risk more than others think is safe.  Dream more than others think is practical.  Expect more than others think is possible.
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May you greet each new day with the excitement and anticipation of a child.
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Never be afraid to dream, for the simplest dream can take you where your heart yearns to go.
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Some of life’s promises may not come true, but morning always comes and behind each cloud the sun is still shining.
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Forgiveness is the fragrance a flower gives off when you step on it.
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Good Thoughts to Live By #19

The Powers of Heaven
Posted: 03 May 2012 08:00 AM PDT
"The priesthood is the authority of God delegated to men on the earth to act in all things for the salvation of mankind. Priesthood is the means whereby the Lord acts through men to save souls. One of the defining features of the Church of Jesus Christ, both anciently and today, is His authority. There can be no true Church without divine authority."
—Elder David A. Bednar, "The Powers of Heaven", General Conference, Apr. 2012
Topics: Priesthood


Because I do know God's Plan of Happiness, because of the priesthood authority being restored to set up Christ's Church, I grieve, but do not give up hope for those who have died.  I do feel bad that Thomas Kinkade (his painting above) passed away recently at a rather young age.  I grieve with my good friend in England who just lost her mum yesterday.  I miss family members and friends who have left this earth while I've been alive.  I felt sad when these tulips finally died, even though they still looked beautiful to me.  Things and people go on in our hearts and in that special place of peace and rest where they wait where we will be able to see them again.  We shall have back all we lose here, but all will be even better.  What happiness this reality brings to my soul!
Unknown authors:

Although the world is full of suffering, it is full also of the overcoming of it.
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People ask, “Do you love me?”  More importantly ask, “Do you receive and feel my loving you?”
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To the world you may be just one person, but to one person you may be the world!
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People who see the beauty in those around them cause beautiful things to happen.
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In this wondrous life there are champions of hope whose very existence brings light into the world.
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Sometimes it takes a storm to bring the sky back into view and to clear our pathway to the stars.
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Challenges help us stretch from what is into what can be.  They awaken us to the journey of life.
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The barn burned down.
Now I can see the moon.
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There are two ways to get to the top of an oak tree . . . start climbing or sit on an acorn and wait.
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Faith is a bird that sings while it’s still dark.
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Okay, so it is a tulip I need to let go.

Keep dreaming, keep believing, keep a rainbow in your heart.
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Happiness held is a seed . . . happiness shared is a flower.
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We cannot direct the wind, but we can adjust the sails.
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Do not follow where the path may lead.  Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.
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You may give without loving but you cannot love without giving.

Saturday, May 5, 2012

Good Thoughts to Live By in Trials #18

Special Lessons

Posted: 05 May 2012 08:00 AM PDT

"Some might ask when faced with such suffering, how could Almighty God let this happen? And then that seemingly inevitable question, why did this happen to me? Why must we experience disease and events that disable or call precious family members home early or extend their years in pain? Why the heartaches? At these moments we can turn to the great plan of happiness authored by our Heavenly Father. That plan, when presented in the pre-earth life, prompted us all to shout for joy. Put simply, this life is training for eternal exaltation, and that process means tests and trials. It has always been so, and no one is spared."

—Elder Ronald A. Rasband, "Special Lessons", General Conference, Apr. 2012
Topics: Trials

Lately, I've been talking with some people who are going through very difficult times and wonder how they can keep going.  Our family is also struggling with challenges that weigh us down and makes one wonder when it will all get easier or end.  We know things eventually end, but there is no promise they'll get easier.  That reality doesn't need to be depressing because of the hope we can carry in our hearts and the comfort in knowing, if we rely on God, we will have the strength to survive whatever we are required to endure.


Responding to the emails that come into LDS.org,  I often feel helpless to assist  those who are hungry, homeless, or suffering pain in circumstances they did or did not cause .  The only thing I can offer is perhaps a  suggestion for action in contacting someone for help or simply tell them to hold on to their faith and to pray.  I see in the needs of so many the reason for those who can help to be involved in some way.  Giving of our time and means is one way to make a difference in the world, even if it is only one person, or in one little spot on this earth.


Today, I am especially thankful for everyone who has ever helped me in any way and for all the good people in the world who reach out in any way to comfort, support, assist, or uplift others.
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This poem (below) appeared in Dear Abby to give people a sense of peace when they feel guilty and think they hadn’t done all they could for a loved one while they were still on the earth to enjoy it. 

I would rather have a little rose
From the garden of a friend,
Than have the choicest flowers
When my stay on earth shall end.

I would rather have the kindest words
And a smile that I can see,
Than flattery when my heart is still
And this life ceased to be.

I would rather have a loving smile
From the friends I know are true,
Than tears shed around my casket
When the world I bid adieu.
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How wonderful it is that no one need wait a single moment to improve the world.
  -Anne Frank
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Everything can be taken from man except the last of the human freedoms, his ability to choose his own attitude in any given set of circumstances.
  -Victor Frankel
                                                       

When we truly know of our divine nature, we will focus our eyes on sights, our ears on sounds, and our minds on thoughts that are a credit to our Father in Heaven.
  -Russell M. Nelson

I will prepare and perhaps some day my chance will come.
  -Abraham Lincoln

To see God’s glory in his earthly creations makes one feel humble to be participants in his latter-day kingdom.  -Marlin K. Jensen

Friday, May 4, 2012

Good Thoughts to Live By #16


Posted: 03 May 2012 11:00 PM PDT
"The Apostle Paul in his letter to the Romans said that those who pass judgment on others are 'inexcusable.' The moment we judge someone else, he explained, we condemn ourselves, for none is without sin. Refusing to forgive is a grievous sin—one the Savior warned against. Jesus’s own disciples had 'sought occasion against [each other] and forgave not one another in their hearts; and for this evil they were afflicted and sorely chastened.'"
—President Dieter F. Uchtdorf, "The Merciful Obtain Mercy", General Conference, Apr. 2012
Topics: Forgiveness




It is only imperfection that complains of what is imperfect.  The more perfect we are, the more gentle and quiet we become toward the defects of others.
  -Fénelon


Peace does not dwell in outward things, but within the soul.
  -Fénelon


Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
  -Matthew 11:28


Each small task of everyday life is part of the total harmony of the universe.
  -Thérèse of Lisieux


Pray for a good harvest, but keep on plowing.
  -Nancy Otto Boffo, Titusville, Florida


When we do what we can, God will do what we can’t.
  -Seen at New Prospect Church, Anderson, South Carolina
Nothing will ever be attempted if all possible objections must first be overcome.
  -Samuel Johnson


People see God every day, they just don’t recognize him.
  -Pearl Bailey


If you want to lift yourself up, lift up someone else.
  -Booker T. Washingtion


A Creed to Live By
Don’t underestimate your worth by comparing yourself with others.  It is because we are different that each of us is special. 
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.  Only you know what is best for you.
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.  Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.  By living your life one day at a time, you will live all the days of your life.
Don’t give up when you still have something to give.  Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks.  It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.  The quickest way to receive love is to give love; the fastest way to lose love is to hold to it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
Don’t dismiss your dreams; to be without dreams is to be without hope; to be without hope is to be without purpose.
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, but also where you’re going.
Life is not a race, but a journey to be savored each and every step of the way.
  -Nancy Sim